10 heartbreaking truths with important lessons

1. If they tell you they don't love you, believe them and don't chase them.

2. If they tell you they're in love with someone else, believe them and don't take it personally.

3. When they show you how they don't care about you when they're upset, draw a line and leave.

4. If they tell you they're confused about you, believe them and don't take it personally.

5. Don't sit and teach them how to love you if they tell you they're incapable of loving you.

6. Respect their decision and don't begrudge them when they say they can't be in a relationship with you.

7. When they reveal you who they are, stop imagining their potential.

8. Trust them when they regularly demonstrate a lack of commitment.

9. When they say they want to love you but their behaviors fail to make you feel safe, believe them and let        them be.

10. Fairness is unnatural. Nothing is perfect.